We explained that she could leave you, take half and laugh. You have tried to break up with him before. To the selfish baby trappers you have no idea how much you also destroy your childs life. Now looking back that was actually the smarter decision. I was dating (if you want to call it that sex and partying) a single mother that had a victim story about her, son and his father and I bought it. Offer him suggestions about various honorable options look like in this situation. Didnt talk for admit 4 days. I know a woman who accidentally got pregnant 3 times, trying to trap 3 different men. We did not make eye contact, but I saw the narcissistic girl at the coffee shop. She called me names, accused me of lying of what I was doing that night (told her I was not interested in seeing her that night). Confronted her she denied it it, just like everything else, for years. She said that the pills may have not worked. I knew we werent exclusive and we are a lot older past the point of the wanting more kids. It may be more than a coincidence that your girlfriend or wife announced she was pregnant right after you broke up with her. 1. 3 more days passed and she never said anything. Im fairly feminist, but if I ever have a son, you can bet Ill raise him on dont put your dick in crazy.. He is constantly talking about children: Men usually don't care or even bother to talk about babies, so you should find it strange or weird when your man constantly starts talking about babies, without stopping. It is upon you to make firm decisions on why you take them. Later that evening she sent me a picture of a negative pregnancy test with the connotation she has had to do what she has to do. Now if you accidentally got pregnant and you're not ready to have a child or your relationship is on the rocks, don't panic. There is only so much time to run with a false pregnancy story. Well they got divorced and he abandoned me, she has neglected me all my life and now I am extremely unhappy and feel lost in this world. Dont trust women who dont have anything to look forward to or work towards because those are the types of women that unilaterally decide to get pregnant with no regard to the mans goals/ideals for the future. The doctor prescribed her some abortive pills and she took them. Cara you are a piece of garbage. This is a form of isolative abuse. but He decided to Call her May 8th to tell her he could no longer speak with her. 3. But then she remembers he did, and the cycle in her mind continues. Maybe he was too violent with you, a drug addict, possessive or you had no feelings towards him and you tried to face him and had a break up which later you resolved. She may just have been seductive because she was revved up by her hormones. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. In response to Dustin Delfs: I had kept her pain meds locked up and had to give her the doses. You can be a good father to a child without living with the childs mother. For more help on how to deal with her, I suggest that you read my book which covers a wide range of circumstances: Abuse of Men By Women, It Happens, It Hurts, And Its Time to Get Real About It. I even had some tell me when we were married that I was to sell everything to buy them a big house and cars. After breaking it off Ive seen her twice while going out with different women. Right? RELATED:What Is The 'Cycle Of Abuse'? Especially points #7 and #8. Photo by MJC Detroit. Because it just too coincidental that she got pregnant right after he said he couldnt talk to her anymore. You then may think you shouldnda put a ring on it, but its now a much more difficult proposition to get away from her.But then again, lots of real pregnancies end in miscarriage. Not just to become another selfish consumer or opiod addict, etc. Meanwhile when I called her at work she couldnt talk. Finally after 18 years I kicked her ass out. At 82 he told me he wanted to marry again. She visited the doctors (without me) and they suggested that with the Accutane she was prescribed shes going to have a miscarriage. The cookie is set by the GDPR Cookie Consent plugin and is used to store whether or not user has consented to the use of cookies. What are your ovulation days? I worked my ass off, did most of the cooking, cleaning, chores and helped with the kids homework every night while running a business. The cookies is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Necessary". Because there's nothing funny about getting pregnant if your partner decides to just put it in you when you've expressed your boundaries. We recently visited each other & ended up sleeping with each other but the energy was different he was too nervous to maintain ( if you catchmy drift) I could also tell he felt obligated to HER although HE WAS MY MAN not hers ! Many women even feel unattractive and insecure about their bodies. I also dont understand how someone would think its OK to be fake & waste someones time with begrudging presence just to pacify their lack of confidence The worst part is that I still Love him & know from experience that the road hes going down will end in resentment & wasted time WE WERE PLANNING ON GETTING MARRIED & NOW IM A TOTAL WRECK HEEEELP. so I did the math over and over again to possibly show him that she may have been sleeping around. We ended things there. had this happen to me, I asked "where do you want it" she said "in me" and I just said "Nah" and backed out at the last second. If she suddenly isnt pregnant anymorethe pregnancy might have been a trap.A miscarriage may be a cover story for a pregnancy that never was. If shes manipulative enough to set a pregnancy trap, youre in for a terrible marriage if you allow the trap to work. Yes, you are making a mistake always being there for her and going behind his [her fiancs] back and having some fun of my own with her. Neither of you is behaving in a way that leads to health and happiness. Even stole money from me, her daughter, and my business many times. Your partner keeps track of your ovulation days and wants to have sex with you on these days. It sounds like you are feeling both anxious and depressed. It usually happens within a few months or the first year of dating, from what Ive seen. Abortion. If she says she went off of her birth control for a reason other than getting pregnant and she suddenly got pregnantthe pregnancy might be a trap. He said things like " women should serve their man" so any woman who had his child would be his property in his mind. You can get it on the website youre currently on: https://annsilvers.com/collections/books/products/abuse-of-men-by-women-it-happens-it-hurts, or on Amazon. Later that evening she wanted to go out to a bar, I told her I cant be around people, I was stressed with the whole pregnancy, but was willing to spend time with her at home. Each red flag is intended to get your attention and help you pause to consider the possibilities. Now here we are 6 weeks later and only 2 encounters with a young recent high school graduate pregnant. His life is meaningful because he is a parent. Have you ever heard of such cases where a lady got pregnant but insists that she used a condom? 20. there was no declaration from either of us we didnt want any kids right now. All the stories fell apart when I called the guy who she was cheating on me. I told her I want us to visit a family clinic to which she agreed but never committed to the times I called her to meet up. By this, he has no choice but to impregnate you. Hi Javier. First of all, this is a highly spoiled and over indulged way of behaving. She sent a message reading hello. Trap Red Flag #6. In the beginning, women fall for destructive men in the moments the guy seems like a normal guy or when he appears to be a victim because then he is seen as vulnerable. I hope you keep good track and hide these days from him. He would say he was going to wear a condom and poke holes or rip through it with his thing or just remove it. As funny as this sounds it is a real sign that he wants to trap you with pregnancy. There is a chapter for friends and families of abused men. From what Ive read, engaging and arguing with a narcissist is the worst choice to make. Then, couple days later she went to see a doctor and according to her the doctor said that she had a complication. Your relationship has become monotonous. Thank you so much for sharing the childs side of the baby-trap story. I was not trying to tie him down. It's a fantasy that sometimes turns to reality. They have spent about 10 days together and have only known each other other for 7 weeks. BTW, she didnt need them. Right suddenly appears out if the blue. Hopefully, you feel somewhat lighter. How can you tell whether an accidental pregnancy is a trap or legit? He tries confusing you into giving him contradictory answers which makes you feel like you are the bad person in the relationship. For him, he will come back with strategies to lock you up for marriage. A man who interacts with small children is showing enthusiasm about the prospect of being a father. There are many potential pregnancy benefits that might motivate a woman to get pregnant accidentally-on-purpose. He gave the exact same story without knowing the details of ours. It does sound like you were baby trapped. He's ready to start a family. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. Confused and angry I sent her the footage and explained how someone whos pregnant is getting drunk, getting very touchy with other men, making time for everyone else but me. She was such a horrible person that we didnt even go to the funeral. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Youve made it clear you dont want kids now. Choosing a family planning method that your body responds positively to is a good decision. He may not be able to come out and talk about marriage just yet, so look for these three signs that he wants to marry you instead. She sold a car on Saturday and bought a horse on Sunday. Financial control 20 minutes after they left that bar thats when I got the video calls which I only saw in the morning( June 18th). She had to get up and have to puke several times. Kat Cook: Thanks for adding these stories of a woman using the pregnancy trap multiple times. She has a conveniently timed miscarriage. Explaining my situation to her on the phone and hearing what she had to say about my situation really helped me expose this girl for lying about being pregnant just to get back to me( trap me). See additional information. Anyway- NEGGING, reminding you of all his 'options' and mentioning other girls for no reason. Read on for 21 signs your man is still in love with his ex who is also his baby mama. That was June 28th. You are right. 1. I didnt love her and she had multiple issues I couldnt deal with anymore. I went there after an hour and half and it was closed and I received a message saying shes home already. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. Also, another red flag when she says, Im a devout Catholic!, nothing against Catholics, but that should tell you that although she cant keep her legs shut (which is a sin to Catholics, too), shes not about start using birth control because thats also supposedly a sin..smh. I wasnt dumb enough to marry her. This is not an unusual phenomenon and can be experienced by almost anyone. Are we do stupid to believe these are accidents. He's insecure and doubts you. She texted saying she wanted this to be her own decision so she doesnt regret it one day. At first, you think this is sweet and so . Things to avoid in a relationship are assuming off the cuff that you're in love when it could very well just be a strong case of "like.". I wanted kids but couldnt stand the women. When he pays you a conjugal visit, he brings up excuses of forgetting to carry a long condom or he says he is going to pull out. If the man gets over-possessive, stops using protection measures during intercourse, discusses funny topics on baby fever, jumps to marriage topics, discourages you from birth control pills, you have ever broken up before then he would trap you with pregnancy. Thanks for sharing your story Ozoz. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. If you feel strongly about this topic please only vote for politicians that wsnt bc and abortions to be safe & legal or dont complain. There are still options for you, and you can get through this. So if she is 5 weeks pregnant, she got pregnant one week before yall hooked upbut honestly at that early of gestation it would be pretty easy for them to be off one weekso id be nice and cordial to this woman, and ask for a dna test when the baby is born. 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